Being Afraid to Ask Questions
If the five-year-plan question is too much for you, a far less inquisitive question can also get you plenty of information. Patti suggests, "Asking something as simple as 'what's your favorite restaurant?' can show what kind of person you're dealing with. If your date says In-N-Out, that's an indicator that this guy isn't going to take you on nice dates; that might be an issue for you."